1. After I graduated from university last year, I stayed at home for half a year to prepare for the teacher preparation exam, but I was unsuccessful. At the beginning of this year, I went to work as a teacher in a private school, and one semester down the line, my teaching results are quite good.
Since my boyfriend moved to a new city for work, I also chose to quit my job at the end of this month and move here with him.
2. My future career goal is still to get into the teaching profession, but I haven't done so yet, so I'm thinking of substituting at a private or public school first to gain some teaching experience.
So lately, resume submissions have been focused on public school substitute positions and private school teaching positions near where I live now, but it's a little frustrating that many of the schools are already full or I've submitted my resume and haven't heard anything.
3, I gave myself a plan: if I can't find a public school substitute or private school job in half a month, I'll find an easier job that will give me some income and time to study for the preparation exam. But the question is, what are the easy jobs that are suitable for preparing for the exam? I have no idea.
4, now there is no income, all day restlessness, want to calm down to read and review are difficult. Every day after my boyfriend went to work, I was alone at home anxiously brushing recruitment software, afraid to go out to meet people, always feel that I am quite a failure, I do not know how to adjust this mentality, as soon as possible to find a satisfactory job.
Hello, friend! I'm Seven Stars.
From what you've shared, I get the sense that you're a very planned person, and that's especially great. You know exactly what you want and how to go about it, and that's already better than a lot of people.
Right now you're feeling anxious for two main reasons:
1. No source of income, less security;
2. You may be worried that your boyfriend thinks you are a burden and is afraid of being disliked.
I completely understand where you're coming from, not having an income is really stressful, and in the modern world, income is often one of the pillars of security.
To improve the situation, try these methods:
[On finding a job] It is recommended to optimize your resume. Think from the employer's point of view, what kind of person do they need? What skills do they have? Adjust your resume in this way to be more appealing to recruiters.
Many people always write their resumes from themselves, which highlights strengths but may not be what the other person is looking for most.
【About Mindset Adjustment】 Learn while you live, don't let anxiety affect your state. Anxiety tends to make people look uninspired. While looking for opportunities, move around more, such as doing sports and taking a walk, to make yourself more energized so that you can give people a good impression during interviews.
Imagine if you were a recruiter, would you pick someone dynamic but a little less experienced, or someone who was up to par but dead weight?
Good luck is sometimes afraid of you looking like you're not having any fun. Believe in yourself, you're already a good teacher, after all, you've proven it with your strength. Come on! Adjust your state, you will be able to do better.