Hi everyone ~ sorry to interrupt, here I use A for girls and B for boys, they are a couple oh.
Today, A went online to play King of Kings, and happened to see B also online, so he went ahead and booked B to play with him. When B finished playing a game and invited A, A accepted the invitation and entered the team. But just into the team not a few seconds, A suddenly feel a burst of nausea, especially do not want to continue to play with B, hate to immediately quit the team. What's going on here? And in hindsight, it's still a bit of a stomach-churning feeling.
Hello, owner! I'm a whale social worker 🐳🐳!
📌First, let's talk briefly about sexual monogamy: it refers to the psychological state of "having a feeling of fondness for someone, but not really wanting the other person to respond to your feelings". To put it bluntly, you may be attracted to someone, but you don't want to be in a relationship or invest too much in it, and sometimes the other person's passion will make the feeling disappear.
📎 However, it might be a bit too hasty to conclude that it's sexual monogamy just based on this bit of what you're describing 📎 📎 If you suspect that you're experiencing similar emotions, you can start by asking yourself: am I genuinely wanting to be in the relationship and maintain it? Or are there other details in your life that make you react in a similar way?
📝 As for why the nausea and regurgitation? Your mention of "team" concerns me a bit ~ is it possible that you'd prefer the person you're playing with to just play with you alone, rather than in a team? Or conversely, do you actually want him to focus more on you?
It's also possible that the person you're with is displaying a different social relationship or personality than usual when you're in a group, which makes you feel a little strange or uncomfortable～.
Good luck with everything! (Whale Social Worker)