For as long as I can remember, my mom and dad were always arguing and sometimes fighting.
Now they are in their fifties, all three of our children are grown, and we have three grandchildren, but they are still the same old people, arguing endlessly and even getting physical.
Whether our children or grandchildren were around or not, they argued as usual.
And they've been separated for decades.
Hello owner, this is Whale Social Worker Immortal Immortal.
I can see that you are an exceptionally kind and loving child, and I really feel warm for your family to have a child like you. According to the situation you described, let's talk together and see what we can do to ease the atmosphere at home.
😘 First of all, we have to understand a family law:
In the family system, as children, we don't have the right to discipline or demand what our parents do, as a sign of respect for our elders. But if you want to support them to improve their relationship, you can quietly influence them through some ways of communication.
🍄 First, it boosts each of their sense of self-worth. When a person feels valued, they have the heart to care about other people's feelings and speak more thoughtfully.
🍄 Second, look for opportunities to make them aware of their own shortcomings and the other person's strengths, thus stimulating self-reflection.
🍄 Thirdly, give each other more personal space and encourage them to make more friends and have their own social circle, which will ease the resentment in the family.
I hope these ideas above have inspired you.
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