You want to talk to your family about your grievances, but you are always interrupted by impatience? ,
For example, when I had a problem with my in-laws due to my husband's affairs and confided in my mother's parents, they kept saying that I didn't control my husband.
We may have all encountered: there is something in the heart want to find someone to talk to, but it is blocked back by a cold sentence, feeling particularly helpless, no support.
Family members often show impatience, so we might want to look at ourselves first:
Is it possible that I have complained too much in the past? Is it that I have really not done enough myself? Is it that I just spit out my grievances without thinking of practical ways to improve the situation? Is it that I'm tired of saying the same thing over and over again in front of my family?
Of course, another situation is that family members have a habit of communicating in an accusatory way. They always say, "You shouldn't be like this," "How can you be like that?". Every time you want to talk about your heart, you will be blocked by this kind of accusation, not only did not solve the problem, but also more depressed. In fact, often family members are not the best people to talk to, their experience and views are limited.
Is there another way to talk about it? Of course there are, such as chatting about specific issues on a psychological platform like, or finding a professional listener, which may be more useful than talking to your family. Don't let yourself hold on to your grievances.